Ryan is currently in New York City . . . and soon: Chicago!

i’m doing my best to help little sister elina graduate from college and evidently her mom back in estonia appreciates it (almost certainly because she’s footing the tuition lol)


it’s true you know . . .
(someone sends me this screenshot and says “this is you” at least three or four times a year lol)

last night i got a burrito and the guy gave me a free coke zero because “love that jacket dude” lol
ultra-rare mirror selfie of me btw….,….


from international women’s day lol . . . but i course corrected a few minutes later ok!!

looking at all those pictures of my friends from yesterday made me emotional. i’m so lucky to know you all. thank you for being my friend. it is an honor. i think about you every day






happy international women’s day to all the extremely cool women i am lucky to know!!!
:,)
when i was in tokyo, my sister-in-law riko-san took me out to dinner the day after my birthday. it was one of the sweetest things anyone has ever done for me. i wrote about that night. we sometimes had to use translation apps to communicate. at one point i told her something was really bothering me. i felt a sadness. she patiently listened to my story. and when i had finished, she spoke into her phone and held it up to me so i could understand her
she’d said this in japanese:
彼女は寂しい。
あなたのことが恋しい。
i nearly cried when i read the english translation beneath it





this is actually me by the way


thank’s julia :,-)
